Dating and Relationship Advice for Divorced Men on SingleDad.com David Wygant topic; Are You a Real Man?
Are You a Real Man?
| Author: David Wygant, DavidWygant.com | Posted: 07/26/10 | ||
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Someone asked me the other day what I thought about manliness. Here is the truth about manliness.
A real man walks over to a woman in whom he is interested. He gets to know her. He realizes that he is a catch. If he finds something attractive about her, then he asks her out and gets her phone number.
A real man will call her up the very next day (or even maybe that night) and set up a date with her, because he wants to get to know her. A real man doesn’t hesitate.
A real man makes decisions. Even when a decision takes time to make, once a real man makes that decision he sticks to it and stands behind it. I know sometimes it takes me a month or two to make a decision on certain important issues in my life, but once I make a decision I never waiver backwards.
I never think to myself, did I make the right decision? Is this the right decision? Should I have gone the other direction?
Sometimes it takes me two months to just buy a car. Once I buy that car, though, I know I’ve made the right decision and I don’t look back.
Sometimes it takes me three months to process something personal that’s going on in my life. Once I make a decision about it , though, I move forward and stick with that decision. I don’t go back and think about the other options I was considering.
A real man walks into a room and smiles. A real man walks into that room and talks to people that he finds interesting.
A real man walks through life knowing that he’s a success. A real man takes risks — business, personal, and everything else. He realized that even when he fails, it’s a lesson that he needed to learn and he embraces it.
A real man does not blame anybody for anything that he’s done, and just accepts things as they come along. More importantly, a real man protects the people that he loves, and is loyal to everybody that he loves.
A real man is loyal to his family. A real man steps up for his kids, his wife, his friends. He never leaves them hanging.
A real man picks up the phone when a friend is in need. A real man picks a friend up when he is in need.
This is what I feel a real man is like. Are you a real man?
As one of the most quoted dating experts in the country for the last eleven years, David has been prominently featured and consulted by thousands of media outlets. In addition to being a media personality, David continues to be a full-time dating coach. David is one of the only dating coaches who coaches both men and women, and has done so for over a decade. David's coaching services include one-on-one personal coaching, his famous dating bootcamps, weekend immersion coaching, and phone coaching. He also offers a wide array of products for both men and women, including books, ebooks, audio and video products. His website (www.davidwygant.com) is unlike any other in the industry, offering a wealth of free information and advice within one of the only dating sites regularly visited by both men and women. David writes a daily blog for both men and women, along with daily video blogs and podcasts.
